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All of Shopping
August 19, 2008
Strolling along, singing a song, side by side
For months Calvin has been eyeing (and borrowing) other mini-strollers. Finally he has one to call his own. That's thanks to an extended Sunday stroll through my ex-ex-neighbourhood on Manhattan's Upper East Side.
State News, a toy shop on E86th Street that I remember as being uninspiring, is more on the other end of the spectrum. I suspect that las less to do with a merchandising change than it does a significant change of perspective on my part. Having unsuccessfully sought a minature pram that was not a lurid shade of pink, we happily happened upon this one. The result, I think, speak for themselves.
One of the best parts of birthday week is having Grammy come to stay. That means a week of treats from getting to celebrate a birthday together to shopping for new duds for spring.
Our yet-to-turn one year old is filling out his 12-18 month wardrobe, size 5.5 shoes and 2-3T socks! Yikes! Luckily our friends and family are very clued into how little ones grow, and we were thrilled to receive georgeous outfits in the perfect size. Thank you!
The little guy was fortunate to receive a generous moneygram from his grand uncle and aunt in South Africa and it wasn't too difficult to decide how to spend it. Part went into his savings account, and another went to an investment of a different kind: Calvin's music.
When shopping for a young percussionist -- for clearly that's what our pot, pan, cutlery and recycle banging boy is into right now -- there is only one stop in New York City. That locale is what I like to call music alley, just off Broadway on W48th Street. And on that street, we like Sam Ash.
This is like the epicentre of music. Divided among three stores now, theres the wood and wind store; the string store and... the percussion store. You can test out equipment (I highly recommend having a go on various drum sets); buy sheet music; or just gape in longing at the instruments (like the $6,000 Selmer Alto Sax like my dad used to have.)
Fortunately, when equipping a young percussionist, the price tags are much lower. We managed to get Calvin more than we bargained for -- his all time favourite Rythmix egg shakers in both the traditional egg shape, as well as an elephant, giraffe and rhino shape (each opening up all kinds of different sounds, weights and outlines for chewing on), as well as the piece de resistance... a tom drum!
I hope our neighbours do not think they've been transported into tribal lands somewhere, now that low tone bongs are emanating from our apartment. But it's well worth the beaming expression on our 'musician's' face. This video shows a snippet of the fun, thoughnot the best of the drumming by far. He does actually use the drumsticks the right way around and bangs the drum! Thanks Grand Uncle S and Grand Aunt M!
One of the things I love about my Manhattan neighbourhood, Hell's Kitchen, is its strong sense of self and its vibrant community. Take the kid's Halloween Parade and neighbourhood party on Ninth Avenue and 47/48th street this weekend; the community garden barbeque held earlier this summer; the annual block garage sale on 43rd street; and the bi-annual toy and clothing exchange.
The latter never entered my consciousness until, of course, the organizing principle became relevant. This Sunday marks the second one I've attended and volunteered for. Think bazaar for babies and children, a medley of goods crammed onto rows of those institutional folding tables that grace so many church halls across the globe.
During trading hours you could easily imagine yourself in a one-room, western version of Istanbul's Kapali Carsi -- sans traders but with goods aplenty. Chaos appears to reign, but commerce manages to be conducted.
Living in close quarters, the sale makes both dollars and sense for everyone who participates -- who has the space to keep something that isn't useful? Add to it environmental consciousness and a communual-friendly attitude and you have a community of parents who are only too happy to sell their gently used goods and acquire others they need.
The sale has been an institution in the neighbourhood for more than 20 years, and going along with that, there are sellers who are in hot demand. Like "G", who apparently has a selection of the best toys for boys; and "C", who takes such good care of items that they return to the exchange for another cycle of usefulness.
If "it takes a village" to raise a child, then we've got a good start here in Hells' Kitchen!
Calvin may not be able to tell you what goes on in men's rooms, but he's had an all access pass equivalent into the ladies fitting rooms.
The little guy was only somewhat impressed by the stage-worthy 15 foot, red velvet curtain and literal red carpet treatment at Anne Taylor, but the stars on the doors and the backstage lighting did catch his eye.
We can attest that the very best (and commission-induced) service can be had when you have a lad strapped to your front who charms everyone within a 5 metre radius. (Attention shoppers, the knot of people clustered to the right of the store has nothing to do with a good deal and everything to do with a most sociable tiny tot.)
After charming the public, he chilled out with Bobo, checking out his reflection while we modelled potential new duds. Verdict? He maintains the best dressed award, especially in the chapeau department.
As part of our planning for our trip home to South Africa, we're looking at how to deal with ensuring Calvin has the right toys to keep up his learning. Our quandry is that his favourite -- his playgym -- isn't compact enough to be easily portable. But he spends a significant amount of time batting, kicking, grabbing and gooing on it.
This weekend marked the start of Calvin getting to meet the rest of his family. He got to meet his grandfather, "Pop," as Jay's dad and wife Carol came especially to New York to meet him. The photo above was taken when the three first met each other.
It's 8:30am Saturday morning. My husband and six-and-a-half-week-old baby are blissfully asleep. I could be too. But instead, I am in our livingroom, coaxing the spoils of a number of Fashion District outings into a wearable egg-stravaganza.
The colourful box is tastefully put together. The playmat carry bag uses good design principles and applies white space to balance the alternate monochrome and technicolour explosions barely contained in its plastic boundaries. The contents are anything but usual. Welcome to the world of "ZQ."
One of the things you learn, hopefully sonner than later, is that of the universe of things that you could possibly buy for your baby, you actually need very little of it. Retailers will try all kinds of ploys to encourage you to open your wallet -- the safety and 'what if' angle; the 'essential for the development of your child' aspect; the stye never mind the money sell and the ridiculously cute and possibly of practical use items. This would be one of the latter.
Glide through the red-canopied doors into the zen-calm of Japanese emporium, Takashimaya, on New York's Fifth Avenue, and one of the first of many delights to thrill your senses will be its florist. I've always found it enchanting, often stopping in to stroll, smell and admire, if not buy.
When people ask me what the "wedding disasters" were, I count myself lucky that there were only two. And then, even in the moment, we had a core calm that all would somehow be fine. One of those bumps in the aisle was a certain suit for the groom, from none other than Ermenegildo Zegna, *the* suit for this season (according to various fashion rags.)
While I witnessed flurries, drizzle, rain, massive snow flakes and various changes betwen all four in the span of minutes today, there's no doubt that Spring is marching forward and before it gets too hot, I'd better publish this post. (It being one of those unpublished posts sitting around waiting to be "polished".)
What is it about that spot in Times Square? The intersection of Seventh, Broadway and 42nd street. Last year it housed the DEA, and now it's JCP. If not drug addiction, then compulsive shopping, it's bad karma on a corner.
Deliciously superficial, fashion has cemented its foothold in New York's stereotype as the perfect counterpoint to the stressful, strenuous seriousness of the 60-hour work week.
Or perhaps it is because the city's citizens take everything so seriously -- relationships, workouts, dining to name but a few -- that fashion should be one more element on a sombre New York life list. (That would explain the ever ernest, grave, severe, unsmiling and humourless expressions on the city's fashionistas -- ever notice those are all synonyms for "serious"?)
Last night, a few of those stern individuals joined a packed house at Cain, the South African-themed West Chelsea club described by CitySearch as being for "the women who wear fur and the men who love them."
What underscores popularity? And what does it take to break through the consumer cognizance? Those are questions I couldn't help asking myself when musician Brandon Ross came to dinner on the weekend.
They call him the master guitarist for good reason. He has collaborated with modern jazz masters the likes of Henry Threadgill, Leroy Jenkins, Oliver Lake and Butch Morris. He is credited as "the architect of the breakthrough sound and success of Cassandra Wilson's "Blue Light 'Til Dawn." And not only can the man play, he can sing. And the result is... sublime.
Four months of pondering, researching, sitting, slouching, budgeting, comparing and musing all in pursuit of the perfect sleeper sofa might seem a bit much. but it's all worthwhile once you find 'it.'
I suppose I could try and blame it all on Michele. After all, there I was, innocently sharing lunch with her at my favourite Vietnamese restaurant near work (Boi, when the words, "It's Barney's Warehouse sale tomorrow," popped out of her mouth...